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Sunday, 27 November 2016

Basic Things Man wants in his Woman


Physical attraction is important in any relationship. While every guy has his own preferences when it comes to the physical [some like busty, some like skinny; some like chocolate, some like curvy] there are several fundamental qualities that all men crave in a woman. 

The media might lead us to believe that getting a man is all about the physical: what you wear, how you do your makeup, the right push-up bra, the right scent. But to be intensely attracted to someone goes past that. These things will certainly help you attract a man, but will do a little to keep him interested and invested. A mature man looks for an attractive personality. He knows that beauty will fade, but a beautiful personality only gets better over time.

If you want to win the right man’s heart, you need to know what it is that makes a man go from just feeling casual about dating you to wanting and needing you on a deeper level.  Men need someone they can ride the waves of life with, who will stand by their side for better or for worse. No man is looking for a relationship shits; where the woman he's dating brings more drama than happiness to his life, where her immaturity and jealousy stresses him out and where he questions if being a relationship is even something he wants.

We are going to take you inside a man’s mind and reveal basic things he is looking for in you. So you understand what it takes to trigger his heart and get the connection.
Here are basic traits that every man keeps in mind when deciding if the woman (i.e. you) sitting across the dinner table at that first date is a woman of his life.


Respect
The Sole key to understanding any man is RESPECT. A man doesn’t just deserve respect, he needs to be respected; this is part of his nature as leader, protector and provider. The need for respect is at the core of his self-esteem, and it affects every area of his life. Women (wife) will have to meet her husband’s need for admiration and respect by understanding his value and achievements. She needs to remind him of his capabilities and help him to maintain his self-confidence. A single man needs respect as much as a married man does. He needs sisterly affirmation of female ladies friends and relatives.

Through much reading and research, we have learned that men desperately want respect from the woman in their life. Men have an enormous need to feel respected. This is true of all humans, but usually this desire burns stronger in men.
Respect means that you think that he is important and you show it with your actions. It means accepting he needs certain things, even if they are in opposition to what you want or need. What we mean by respect, is you understands who he is and what he needs and give him space to express himself without making demands on him and prioritizing herself over him.

The Sole key to understanding any man is RESPECT. A man doesn’t just deserve respect, he needs to be respected

As a woman, failure to respect your man is an invitation for misunderstanding in your relationship. Man so much value respect not even from the woman in the house alone but he also love to earn respect from his colleagues.

If your man could value respect that much, then, it is the duty of the woman to give him respect and in return earn his love. It is certain that if a woman gives her man respect, the man do reciprocate it with love. Give him respect and in return he will love you more than you could think about now.

Give your man respect and he will give you love, then sit back and see how thriving your relationship will go.  For every successful relationship, being dating, courting, or in marriage, every woman should give their man respect and in turn every man should learn to give their wives love and love deeply. Relationship that lack love and respect can’t be successful; it is a clear statement for all lovers and lovers to be.

Supportiveness
Men find it easy to fall in love with women that encourage and support positive undertakings they embark on. Men love women that have the ability to see what they see in the goals they pursue. Men believe that when you support their dreams and goals, you believe in their ability to accomplish those things that are dear to their hearts. And when you support that which is dear to a man's heart, you essentially have the key to unlock his passionate love for you.

“The best possible thing you can get out of a relationship is that you're with someone who encourages you to be the best version of yourself every day.” 
~Nishan Panwar

Let us hammer what it to be a supportive partner is. A supportive other half isn’t a woman who will hang on her man every word, do whatever he wants, and follow him to the ends of the earth. That clinginess isn’t the ‘true love’ that he is searching for.
True love and support comes from someone who challenges him, stands beside him when he needs her, is always there in the background in case he falls, and lets him roam free, giving him the space he needs to grow as a person. One that will never judge him, put constraints on his mind, his physical body, or any of his dreams. Woman that will be a cheerleader for his cause without being a groupie. One that will go to the other side of the world for him when he needs her, but she won’t over-crowd him.
Men find it easy to fall in love with women that encourage and support positive undertakings they embark on.

As clich├ęd as it is, some men want to be caretakers … but even the strongest of men want a soft place to fall. He wants to know that you'll support him and stand by him in his life choices, whether it's changing careers or moving to a new city. Show your support in small gestures with a quick "I love you" text when he heads off for his morning commute and listen to him after a hard day's work. Be supportive, but not suffocating. The last thing you want is to remind him too much of his mother.

This required an energy that stop worrying that your other half is going to leave you or wrong you or let you down. Have some faith and, in return, he will have faith in you.

 Independent
A great guy isn’t intimidated by independence and success. What matters to a man is that a woman still has space in her life for a great relationship and is grounded and present when she’s with him.

Men may not say it, because how do you tell the person you love to get a life of her own? But men really want you to have your own life. Really. They want you to have your own set of friends, activities, and passions. Of course they want to be supportive of everything you care about and be a part of anything you would like them to be a part of, but they want you to have your own identity.

 Lots of women mistakenly believe that men are looking for a “weaker” woman who will make them feel like they are smarter and more powerful. Nothing could be farther from the truth. What men want in a woman is the same thing a woman wants and that is to have her own life. A man wants you to be happy and healthy with your own things happening, and not to depend upon him for your happiness or entertainment. He loves being with you, but he loves his private time, too – and so should you.

A real man wants a woman who is herself, and isn't dependent on relationships to make her happy

A real man wants a woman who is herself, and isn't dependent on relationships to make her happy (but a kiss from him is always appreciated). This type of woman can make her own decisions, have her own dreams and work toward her own goals. A real man will appreciate a woman who has this kind of independence, instead of a girl who can't make up her mind and is solely dependent on a man to be happy.

Real men want a woman who inspires them because she has great things going on her own life. They want a woman who has her own purpose other than being in a relationship. The best way to communicate this to a man is to stay busy in your own life and not suddenly make him your world.  Don’t drop your own interests, responsibilities, and friends just to be with him.  And then, when you are with him, really BE with him – have fun and give your attention to him and what you’re doing together.

Emotional maturity
Emotional maturity means you can manage the intensity of your negative emotions so well that when you are triggered you do not take it out on the person in front of you.
Emotional maturity means you have enough knowledge about yourself that you know when you are being triggered by what your man says or does. This deep knowledge allows you to be calm and process your feelings either alone or softly with him. This path is not easy, but if you master it, it will lead you to the land of sweet romance and lasting love.

If you learn to manage your emotions like this, your man will think you are an amazing Goddess.

Maturity goes both ways. Emotional commitment in a relationship will improve your relationship. Couples argue, and how you handle these arguments is crucial; it really shows your maturity or lack of it. A real man won't depend on rude insults and insensitive comments, but will listen to where you are coming from. A mature woman will do the same, choosing not to criticize or blame her man for problems. A successful couple knows how to handle their emotions, even in arguments. This level of respect is a beautiful part of a healthy and happy relationship.

Your emotional maturity is observed through your thoughts and behaviours. When you are faced with a difficult situation, your level of emotional maturity is one of the biggest factors in determining your ability to cope. If you learn to manage your emotions like this, your man will think you are an amazing Goddess. He will make an effort to be with you because he knows you are rare and different from the rest of the women around.

Honesty and Trustworthiness
A man wants a woman who is trustworthy to a fault, and this is a woman that  is able to hold strong moral principles, and stand by them... say “no” respectfully and “yes” dependably, that admit it when they do not know something, let him know how she feels, where she stand, and how she stands with him. Sometimes the truth hurts, but if you honestly communicate with him [even people], you are seen as more trustworthy because he [a person] can feel confident that you aren’t withholding something important.

If you are the type that tells it like you see it with wisdom, men will find this aspect of your personality very attractive. "Say what you will do and do what you say" ought to be your motto. Just as you respect and love men that tell you the truth no matter what, men feel the same way when they meet a woman that does not waste their time with fibs.

A man wants a woman who is trustworthy to a fault, and this is a woman that  is able to hold strong moral principles

A man needs a woman he knows will be there no matter what, and that means serious trust. A woman that shows genuine feeling for him when she ought to have left him down. What men want in a woman is simple when it comes to that: Be honest with him, and trust him to be honest right back. 

In a nutshell, men are attracted to women that are honest and down to earth, women that do not pretend to be who they are not. Whether you want to admit it or not, perhaps you aren’t as trustworthy as you would like to believe. Trustworthy is an integral part of any relationship; be that with a lover, family member, friend, boss or co-worker. Being trustworthy can be one of most important values to uphold. If he can't trust you, how can he ever see you as his girlfriend … and eventual his spouse?